Parade explains a new trend, but doesn't say where it's happening, or how much.
Interestingly, the journalist is a Grand Rapids mom.
Are school kids in your community using this term?
What Is a ‘Back-To-School Necklace’? All About This Disturbing Trend That Parents Need To Know About
WWMT reports on student use of the state designated anonymous tip line.
The cumulative review includes several videos and info-graphics.
Michigan students use anonymous tip line to report suicide threats, surpass other concerns
18% of all information reported to this tip line includes those types of threats.
Since that anonymous tip line started back in 2014, suicide threats have been the number one concern shared with OK2SAY.
But as one local psychologist explains, suicides and suicide ideation have only increased since 2020.
What he sees is an increase in younger children with suicidal thoughts.
“I think that there's a very large statistical increase in suicidal ideation and suicides among kids, ages eight to 14 where we often used to think of this as more of a later teenage risk. I think that kids are just carrying quite a load up there," he says.
Michigan uses OK2SAY its confidential service that allows students to submit tips.
You can submit everything from assaults to planned school attacks, to hate crimes.
In January there were 128 suicide threats reported to OK2SAY.
More than any other reported activity by students.
“I think it's so important for us also to let people know that they can do something about how they feel," says Dr. Dulin.
Dr. Dulin says talking to someone can be beneficial to many children and teens who are struggling with these thoughts.
“I think it's so important to help young people connect with good people in their lives, to have lots of opportunities for engagement ways they can develop themselves and experience skill building and just everyday enjoyment," he says.
Since OK2SAY launched in 2014, there have been more than 9,000 reports of suicide threats more than any other concern for students.
If you or someone you know is experiencing thoughts of suicide there is help.
The 988 crisis lifeline is available 24.7 to call or text.
Here in Genesee County, there are resources like Mott Children’s Health Center and Genesee Health System.
As in every issue and non-issue, bills have been proposed. I'm putting this article here as a related topic, rather than in the bill section because as the author points out, these bills have not advanced to a hearing.
Mackinac Center offers perspective on state school interference with child mental health issues and parental responsibility.
https://www.michigancapitolconfidential.com/commentary/do-kids-need-mental-health-days
Do kids need mental health days?
And is this a matter for lawmakers in a state that struggles with school attendance?
By James David Dickson | March 15, 2024
Rep. Noah Arbit, D-West Bloomfield Township, and Sen. Sarah Anthony, D-Lansing, have sponsored nearly identical bills allowing K-12 students in Michigan up to five mental health days per school year.
Such things should be left between parents and schools. There shouldn’t be a law for everything. Thankfully, neither bill has received as much as a hearing. Lansing’s involvement in sick days sends several bad messages to kids. The worst among them is that lawmakers can give kids permission to skip school that parents, teachers and schools must honor without question.
Life is hard. But in many ways, lesson No. 1 is to keep showing up. School is where we first learn this lesson. The prodding to get out of bed and be productive comes from our first teachers and our parents. Unlike math or reading, this lesson isn’t taught on the blackboard. It’s earned when we leave warm beds to enter a cold world.
Why would your parents make you do such a thing? Because it’s important to learn how to be disciplined and do things you might not always want to do.
Mental health days granted on high from Lansing send a bad societal signal. It programs children to embrace their fragility, and it encourages parents to indulge this. It also involves the state in decisions best made by parents and schools.
We don’t need a new law. We need adults to think things through on a case-by-case basis. Is that too much to ask?
Michigan schools already have an attendance problem. In 2022-23, 31% of students in Michigan were chronically absent, meaning they missed 10% of the school year. In 2021-22, 38.5% of students were chronically absent.
The COVID-19 pandemic was the dividing line. In 2018-19, the last full year before the pandemic, 20% of Michigan students were chronically absent. That was still too high.
Then schools were shut down. Some students in Michigan had only intermittent access to a classroom education for the better part of two school years. A school attendance habit built over decades was ruined in weeks. Rebuilding it won’t be easy. And mental health days won’t help.
Five free mental health days per year would be a burden placed on kids, not a gift given to them. Missing days does not mean missing work. It only makes the stack bigger when the student does return.
Schools and school days exist to help lay the building blocks of education. Of course, kids won’t always feel like going. Those days are often when it’s most important that they do go. On the occasion a kid needs a day off, the parent is the best judge.
James David Dickson is a Detroit News columnist and managing editor of Michigan Capitol Confidential. Email him at dickson@mackinac.org. This column ran first in The Detroit News on March 13.